There is a flow chart that I will attach down below that goes along with the article. I'll draw a star where I think I belong on the chart. I think this place displays that I try to challenge myself and I hope to have a lot of skills in life but also face anxiety a bit. This is why I put myself higher in the box and on the edge of anxiety.
The article also discussed flow- the state in which people are so involved in an activity that nothing else seems to matter; the experience itself is so enjoyable that people will do it even at great cost, for the sheer sake of doing it. This seems kind of hard to do, because I find it hard to focus on one thing only. There's usually something that gnaws at the back of my mind or that brings my focus away from whatever is bringing me happiness. I hope to achieve flow by acknowledging these things but also being able to put them away.
Lastly, I feel most happy when I'm surrounded by people I like. This sounds weird, so I'll rephrase it. I enjoy being around good feelings and being able to take in the experience. It's less of a where I am or what exactly I'm doing and more the state of mind I'm in. Of course, the situation should be either neutral or positive and should be engaging. However, even though the place doesn't really matter to me, I wouldn't mind it to be out on the lake during a sunny summer day, or sitting with a blanket watching netflix and hearing rain pour against the roof outside.

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